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Gemini Zodiac Sign: Love and Personality

Gemini can be strong, energetic and extremely positive, but their constant need for change can become a problem

Gemini can be lively,  enthusiastic and witty individuals, but they are also known for their inconsistency and for their stressed and nervous personality. Consequently, they can be very unpredictable in relationships. Gemini also has the ability to be very adaptable, which can be a great asset in many situations, but their changeable nature can prove confusing.

Personality traits

At their best, the Gemini can be strong, energetic and extremely positive, but they do need constant stimulation and new challenges to keep them motivated. This is certainly true of the female Gemini, although both manage their emotions a little better as they get older.

The Gemini woman needs to be loved, but she also craves variety and excitement, and she will not hang around for long if it is not forthcoming. She has a very quick mind and has to be tested intellectually to keep her interested. She is not afraid to experiment or take risks, and the Gemini woman will usually make a very exciting lover.

Geminis love to make new friends and to absorb new ideas and opinions. They do not like to be burdened with other people’s emotional problems, but if you find they spend a lot of time with you, then it is because they truly enjoy your company.

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Geminis love to make new friends and to absorb new ideas and opinions | Getty Images

They often love conversation and to pass on what they’ve learned to others. This can be very useful for them in business as they are natural motivators. They are naturally curious and always want to be involved. However, they can be guilty of losing interest just as quickly and moving on to another project, often leaving unfinished business.

Whilst the Gemini can be volatile and unpredictable, they are not too difficult to read. Their body language and demeanor will usually tell you all that you need to know about their current state of mind. They do not tend to spend a long time in the middle ground, and things will either be very good or very bad.

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Whilst their independence is vital to them, they are also capable of being romantic, passionate and caring partners. Conversely, they can sometimes seem emotionally detached and totally unresponsive to their partner’s affections. Geminis are natural flirts, and they can appear completely oblivious to any emotional impact this can have on their current partner.

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There is no doubt that a great deal of patience is needed to enter into a serious relationship with a Gemini | Getty Images

Whilst seeking a partner, they enjoy the excitement of the chase but can find it difficult to settle down as they will quickly be looking for a new challenge. Once they are in a committed relationship, they will make truly devoted and entertaining partners, but they will always prove challenging and frustrating in equal measure.

If you are seeking a safe and sedentary lifestyle you are most unlikely to have this with a Gemini, but if you are open to an exciting and ever-changing existence then you could be well-matched.

There is no doubt that a great deal of patience is needed to enter into a serious relationship with a Gemini. But, if you have the right personality to bring out their best qualities without infringing on their freedom, you will be in for a very exciting future together.